The lost

''when someone from your past dies, it can set you down memory lane, even evoking thought of ''might have been''

- by : Elaine C, The Star

We are struck by sad, regret emotions whenever we heard the news that someone that we know had passed away. We start to feel regret that maybe we don't cherish that person the best that we could when the person is still alive. We always think that we would maybe still have time to cherish the moment with that particular person. We cry and cry as we may not have the chance to say sorry for all the wrong doings that we have done. It hurts us more especially when it's just yesterday u were in fight or there's some misunderstanding with that person and by the next day, you received the news that that person has left the world..

others feel that life is just like a wheel while i feel that life is like a rainbow. When it's raining cats and dogs, that's when we are surrounded with problems. We try to protect ourself from the heavy rain, it's similar to how we protect ourselves and try to cope with the problems so that thunder won't happen.

and later, when the bright colours of rainbows occur, our life are shine. We are happy. We are surrounded with those who truly care about us and we continue the life again and be a better person

If we really love and care about a person, no matter who the person is to our life, cherish them while we could. Try not to get into a fight or misunderstanding with them. Always say sorry and explain what we feel about it. If we think we have try our best but that person yet still not understand us, let that person be alone. If he/she truly cherish us, they will find us back. Avoid doing things that can make us feel regret.

because someday, we may lose that person. By that time, at least we know that we have try our best to make that person happy. Or someday, maybe we are the one who's gonna leave the world first. And by that time also, we know that we try to make everyone happy and we have given them everything that we could.

Bapak once said to me, '' we have to sacrifice things that we love. But what stays with us is the memory. Never delete the memories ''

Whenever we feel hurt with what others done to us, always think that ''Oh, that person don't understand me actually. Each person are not like what we want them to be. Maybe they perceive it differently. Maybe they will understand it better when we are no longer with them ''.

People usually only aware the importance of the one that we love when we have lost them. But at that time we are already too late.

''The heart knows what the heart knows'' - Elaine C, The Star

''somebody asked,dont you feel stress if ur gf hs so many probs in life? ''

this is what i feel.i know who she is.and if she's going to her worst right now,i wanna go thru with her.she makes me happier than anything i ever know.and if i can take the part of that problem and making her happy again,that's all i wanna do.that's ...all i wanna do for the rest of my life. So,if u do really love her,u should feel the same.......... - Abg Kamal