she told me that lately everyone has been asking bout this. The relatives, friends, neighbour and others. I'm just going to turn 21 on March which means I'm still 20 right now. Mama and papa got married when they were 21 and most of my relatives got married when they were 21 22 23 somekind like that. So, I guess that's why Mama and I were asked about this. I already brought him to meet the whole family on papa and mama's side and Alhamdulillah, i can see that they can accept him as well. Enda also seems to already accept him as she does things which she only does in front of the family, but now she already done it in front of him and such. Some of mama's friend also already met him
See, actually I want to achieve my dream before i get married. Insya Allah, I'll finish my degree in 2 years and my mr. gonna finish his in a year. I plan to continue doing full time master and part time working right after i finish while he plans to continue part time master and working. We want to get engaged but not for a long time. We plan to get engaged for only maximum is 6 months. We don't want to get married while we're still doing master but we do plan to get married on the final sem of our master. But, we try our best to get married before we turn 26 years old :)
both family has known each other and for the time being Alhamdulillah I can see that my family can accept him. I had some talk with mama about this. Mama wants my mr. to work first before we get married and finish our master first as we're afraid if i get pregnant, i'll stop studying...hehe..... We plan to held the wedding in Kedah as it's easier for his family to come and we're gonna make another reception in KL for family and friends. We even discuss to but the cards , doorgifts and everything in Jakarta as the price there is much cheaper.
However, it is just a mother-daughter talk. It's just a plain talk but it is meaningful to me actually. For the moment, in the relationship, Alhamdulillah, right now we are just waiting for the moment to be united as one as we are still studying. But i must always remember myself that kita hanyalah manusia yang boleh merancang tapi Tuhan yang menentukan segalanya :) . Insya Allah, if ada jodoh, ada la... As the time that we know each other, i just can say that we know each other strength and weakness. I don't know how to say it but i can see and feel that we already start to understand each other's needs
Insya Allah, the soulmate to be :)
berangan :P
i hope this answers to what people are wondering about :)
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