wedding talk

now it is this wedding and engagement season. K.oya has just engaged. Congratulation kak oya ! very happy for you... Will write a special post on ur engagement later... Tomorrow is jan's solemnization and the week after is the bersanding. Now, hmmmm..... i was being haunted with this quetion '' Bila nak kahwin ? '' lately. But mama got that most popular question



she told me that lately everyone has been asking bout this. The relatives, friends, neighbour and others. I'm just going to turn 21 on March which means I'm still 20 right now. Mama and papa got married when they were 21 and most of my relatives got married when they were 21 22 23 somekind like that. So, I guess that's why Mama and I were asked about this. I already brought him to meet the whole family on papa and mama's side and Alhamdulillah, i can see that they can accept him as well. Enda also seems to already accept him as she does things which she only does in front of the family, but now she already done it in front of him and such. Some of mama's friend also already met him




See, actually I want to achieve my dream before i get married. Insya Allah, I'll finish my degree in 2 years and my mr. gonna finish his in a year. I plan to continue doing full time master and part time working right after i finish while he plans to continue part time master and working. We want to get engaged but not for a long time. We plan to get engaged for only maximum is 6 months. We don't want to get married while we're still doing master but we do plan to get married on the final sem of our master. But, we try our best to get married before we turn 26 years old :)





both family has known each other and for the time being Alhamdulillah I can see that my family can accept him. I had some talk with mama about this. Mama wants my mr. to work first before we get married and finish our master first as we're afraid if i get pregnant, i'll stop studying...hehe..... We plan to held the wedding in Kedah as it's easier for his family to come and we're gonna make another reception in KL for family and friends. We even discuss to but the cards , doorgifts and everything in Jakarta as the price there is much cheaper.







However, it is just a mother-daughter talk. It's just a plain talk but it is meaningful to me actually. For the moment, in the relationship, Alhamdulillah, right now we are just waiting for the moment to be united as one as we are still studying. But i must always remember myself that kita hanyalah manusia yang boleh merancang tapi Tuhan yang menentukan segalanya :) . Insya Allah, if ada jodoh, ada la... As the time that we know each other, i just can say that we know each other strength and weakness. I don't know how to say it but i can see and feel that we already start to understand each other's needs


Insya Allah, the soulmate to be :)

berangan :P

i hope this answers to what people are wondering about :)

now, how can i divide my 24 hours as being a student, personal life and a tutor while i want to do the best for all????

Let say you have ten bullets? Do you give it all 10 to another person or give them 9 but you save one for yourself ?

new year resolution

i hope it's still not too late to wish Happy new year to everyone although we have passed the new year for a week :) Life has been very hectic lately for me . I'm all scheduled for the whole month. On weekdays, i need to attend class and at night i go for tutoring. During weekends, i'm busy with events with the family and loved ones






Alhamdulillah, as 2010 has passed, i had tried the best that i could to achieve what i dream of. Alhamdulillah, I'm happy and blessed with my new image now although the challenge is tough for me. I've tried my best to score in the exam and I'm grateful with the result although it's not that really a good one. I've tried and still trying to be more matured and independent. You won't see me cries oftenly anymore this year whenever there's something struck me although it's just a small matter. I hope i have done the best that i could to make the family, friends and mr. lover happy.


about the celebration, i celebrated my new year with the family at shangrila hotel, Kl. Don't expect too much on the party as it's more to the oldies ones. But honestly it was not that fun compared to the year before. I was not that happy as well as k.oya and mr.lover were not there. K.oya celebrated her new year with her fiancee to be while mr.lover was still on his way back to KL. Luckily, there's ena, hafiq and maria to cheer me up. I went back with hafiq as i'm already sleepy and i was just thinking about SLEEP on my mind. But we stopped by at old town first 4 late supper :). We reached home around 2+ and i doozed off zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

so, my new resolution for this year are that :

1.score higher in exams

2. try to divide my time wisely as a student and tutor

3. become a better person

4. become the apple of the eyes to the family, friends and mr.lover

amin.......

sorry for not updating the blog peeps ~~ i have been very very busy and need to adapt with new semester, new job and things that need to be settled. Promise to update the blog by next week!