quote of ''trustworthy is the best policy'' is not true to me. Before, i've given my trust to people but they mistrust me. There were second chance for forgiveness but there won't be anymore trust given even a lil bit. To me, when u love somebody and give them trust, even when they truly lie to you or whatsoever, u won't realise it because u trust them although in reality u hve been cheated. And i don't like my loved ones to be close or whatsoever with friends of opposite sex. Call me queen control or whatever that u like. That is my flaw. i admit it. I do not do it purposely but i have my own reasons. I have experiences (it's with s, so it means more than 1) when i trust a person as well as their friends of the opposite sex, i mean really given my trust and even i consider the opposite sex of the friend as a friend whom i concern about, but later both mistrust me. Since then, i hate my loved ones to be close with their friends of opposite sex. Anyway, we do not know the real intention of the loved ones and the friend aite?? they may say ''there's nothing between me and her'' but in reality we really do not know their real intention.
i do believe in this quote. Letting go someone that u love. It doesnt' mean that u just have to let go the one u loved when u know he/she is the one. Whenever problems come, if u think u don't find the solution, try to let go the person. Give them some time off only if u think u really cn't settle it now . Not because of your ego.Maybe during the time off, lovers can think back about what had happened and think of the solutions. But don't ever take advantage of the time off mengurat other boys/girls. When the person truly loves u, he'll come bck 2 u n b with u till the end of time :). Honestly, i show my flaws in my relationship coz to me it's better that way so that ur partner know ur goods and ur bads rather u show it after u've married.
like i said, i dont' believe in trustworthy. But i believe in sincerity and honestly. Be sincere about everything that u feel even it's gonna b hurt 4 u or ur partner. Straightforward express whatever u feel coz at least u n ur partner know what actually happened rather than u hiding t or ckp berlapis coz ur partner may not get what u're trying say. Talking straight forwardly is hurt but it can settle problems coz both lovers know what happened and need to be done.
i dont' care what people said about me but this is my principes :)
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